EFT tapping for relief from stress and anxiety

Stress, anxiety and a heightened nervous system are common in nurses and all medical professionals.1 Kim McPherson, former RN and Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) Tapping Therapist, discusses EFT Tapping as a tool for nurses to calm the nervous system to release stress and anxiety.

EFT Tapping is an evidence-based self-help therapeutic method with over 100 studies demonstrate its efficacy.2 EFT combines the tapping of meridian points on the face and body, focusing on the negative emotion to provide desensitisation to and acceptance of the emotion.3

An article published by Susan L. Patterson showed nursing students who practised EFT tapping found a “significant reductions in anxiety were achieved using EFT”.2

According to its developer, Gary Craig, this method disrupts energy that causes negative emotions and pain.3 Restoring this energy balance in the nervous system can relieve symptoms or uncomfortable negative emotions.2

EFT Tapping helps to access the body’s energy and send signals to the part of the brain that controls stress.3 Through stimulating the meridian points by tapping on these specific points, one can reduce the stress or negative emotion that you feel from an issue, restoring balance to a person’s disrupted energy.3


Start by rating on a scale of 0-10 the intensity of the emotion or issue felt, then repeat a “Setup Statement,” this is typically stated in a format similar to this “Even though I have this emotion (eg. stress, anxiety), I deeply and completely love and accept myself.”5

You then start the tapping process but using your fingers to gently tap on acupressure points on the face and body while repeating a shortened phrase to stay engaged (eg. this stress, this anxiety).

This is called the “Reminder Phrase.”5

The tapping sequence uses eight points on the face and upper body and is usually repeated until the rating of the emotion is brought down to a one or zero.

In a study by Bach and co-published in 2019, an improvement was found in 90% of patients who received EFT tapping therapy compared to 63% of the CBT participants.5

Yet for nurses and midwives, how and when can they practically conduct this practice?

If you feel overwhelmed at work, excuse yourself or do this in the bathroom on your break. Practice a round of tapping when you return home after a hard shift and definitely before engaging in any harmful stress-relieving activities such as overeating, stress eating or drinking alcohol.

Here is a tapping script for anxiety and overwhelm.

See the diagram below to check out the points to tap.

1 Karate Chop Point (KC): “Even though I have this anxiety and stress about _______, I truly love, forgive and accept myself anyway.

Even though I have all of this anxiety about ________, I accept myself, and I accept these feelings. Even though I have all of this anxiety and it’s making me stressed, I choose to love and accept myself no matter what.”

Round 1

  1. Eyebrow (EB): This anxiety
  2. Side of Eye (SE): All of this anxiety about _________
  3. Under Eye (UE): All this stress in my body
  4. Under Nose (UN): It’s exhausting
  5. Chin (C): All of this stress
  6. Collar Bone (CB): All this anxiety
  7. Under Arm (UA): I’m feeling anxious
  8. Top of the head (TH): And I don’t know what to do about it

Take a deep breath.

Round 2

EB: This anxiety

SE: All of this worry

UE: All this stress

UN: This __________ (your issue that you are feeling anxious about)

CP: This issue

CB: It’s causing uncomfortable feelings in my body

UA: All of this fear

TH: It’s just too much, it’s overwhelming

Take a deep breath and again check in with your feelings. How is your level of anxiety? Rate it again between one and 10. Did the rating reduce at all?

Hopefully it did. Even a slight drop is good. Tapping lowers cortisol3 so you should feel a shift. Maybe you take a deep inhale, feel tears, yawn, cough or sneeze. Feeling bodily sensations like this is normal as you are acknowledging the anxiety that you may have pushed down in the past and therefore you are moving stuck energy.3 Continue tapping with the next few rounds.

Round 3

EB: All of this anxiety about _______

SE: I just want to feel better

UE: I want to feel calm and at ease right now

UN: But I still have all of this stress

CP: All of this anxiety

CB: This fear

UA: It’s making me exhausted

TH: It’s just overwhelming

Take another deep breath here and check in with your feelings and again rate the number between one and 10. If it is still above one, continue on. If it has diminished to zero, skip round 4 and continue to round five.

Round 4

EB: This remaining anxiety about ___________

SE: I wonder if I could feel calm and at ease about this?

UE: I’m open to that

UN: I’m open to feeling more calm and at ease right now

CP: I’m open to breathing deeply through this

CB: This remaining fear

UA: This remaining anxiety

TH: What if I could feel safe right now?

Round 5

EB: What if I’ve always been safe?

SE: I’m open to that

UE: I’m open to feeling calm and confident

UN: I’m open to feeling safe

CP: I’m open to taking deep relaxing breaths knowing I am safe

CB: I’m not alone

UA: I choose to feel safe no matter what is going on in my life

TH: I choose to feel calm, relaxed and safe

Check back in with how you are feeling and your original problem, rate the level of intensity now. Compare it to your first rating noticing any changes in your emotions, or how you feel in your body. Maybe the intensity of the problem has lessened or your perception of it has changed.


Repeat the above process until there is little or no intensity to your emotion and you can feel neutral about the original issue. Try to get to as low as a rating of two or below. If it is still at a three or four, repeat this process.

Kim McPherson is an ex ICU Nurse, Holistic Health Coach and EFT Tapping Therapist and has been working with nurses to support them with stress, anxiety, emotional eating, weight and energy for nine years.
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Kim McPherson


1 Jordan, T.R. Khubchandani, J. Wiblishauser, M. The Impact of Perceived Stress and Coping Adequacy on the Health of Nurses: A Pilot Investigation Nurs Res Pract. 2016 Nov 1. doi:10.1155/2016/5843256 Available from https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5108847/

2 Patterson S, L. The Effect of Emotional Freedom Technique on Stress and Anxiety in Nursing Students. Nursing Theses and Capstone Projects. 2013. Available from: https://core.ac.uk/download/pdf/53025849.pdf

3 Healthline [Internet]. San Francisco, Ca. Anthony, Kiara. EFT Tapping; 2018 Sept 18 [cited 2 April 2021]. Available from: https://www.healthline.com/health/eft-tapping#technique

4.Frank A. How Childhood Experiences Shape Adult Attachment. In:  Clinical EFT Handbook; vol 1 Biomedical and Physics Principles, Psychological Trauma, Fundamental Techniques of Clinical EFT [Internet]. Energy Psychology Press; 2013. [cited 2021 Apr 02]. Available from: https://www.efttappingtraining.com/how-childhood-experiences-shape-adult-attachment/

5 Bach D, Groesbeck G, Stapleton P, Sims R, Blickheuser K, Church D. Clinical EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques) Improves Multiple Physiological Markers of Health. J Evid Based Integr Med. 2019 Feb 19: 24 (2515690X18823691). Available from https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6381429/.

6 Picture of tapping diagram supplied by Brittany Watkins https://www.brittanywatkins.com/

13 Responses

  1. Such a great explanation of your brilliant area of expertise Kim. I’m so grateful to have experienced some EFT sessions with you and experiencing first hand profound shifts in my mood and energy. Thankyou ANMJ for making this information accessible to nurses. Good to see self care of the carers finally being recognised as an essential.

    1. Thank you for your comment Joy! Self care of the carers is indeed essential.
      Thank you for the brilliant nursing work you do for yourself and for being an example of health for your fellow nurses.

  2. I like how this article explains what ETF tapping is as well as how to do it. I think so many people could benefit from trying this. I will definitely suggest it to my clients who may need to occasionally calm down their nervous system.

  3. Great article Kim. Some really practical strategies for helping those reduce stress. Keep up the good work.

  4. Both my mum and Grandma are nurses who I know have struggled with stress and anxiety especially in their jobs. This article is great Kim. A great step by step practical method for nurses.

  5. Great useful script. Well written. Too useful not to share.

    Tapping is a natural technique that my body greedily soaks up, and together with the EFT script you have shared, hopefully my brain will lock in place for lasting results.

  6. Thankyou Kim
    Great article . I’m a nurse myself for over 30 years and the distress we witness in people daily is huge . I trained in many healing modalities alongside my nursing career and in EFT also . The nurses used to say to me at work are you stressed Helen when I would be tapping . I didn’t even realise my finger tapping went noticed . It’s great to have a practice to discharge the energy of workplace stress . Great article Thankyou
    Best wishes

  7. Kim, this is so wonderful to see your article in the ANMJ.

    I too am a nurse and a wellness and wealth coach, and my passion is helping caring professionals to release anxiety, stress and self-doubt, avoid burnout and make more money!

    I presented at the Australian College of Perianaesthesia Nurses National Conference in Brisbane a few years ago, “Clinical EFT: Simple, Evidence-Based and Effective Self Care for Nurses”. It was great to give registrants an experience of tapping, and was very well received.

    Congratulations for sharing this wonderful stress relieving tool to more nurses.

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